I used to think love should be loud. With signs. With urgency. With something dramatic enough to convince me it was real. But God had other plans. The love He introduced into my life did not shout. It whispered. And somehow, that whisper carried more weight than all the noise I had known before. “God is in the wind, the earthquake, or the fire, but He is also in the still small voice.” And that is exactly how this love showed up. Quiet. Steady. Sure. It didn’t arrive trying to impress me. It...

There comes a point in life when you realize that not everything you inherited was meant to be kept. Sometimes, these things are taught from the place of love; while others were taught and shown in fear and with fear. It could even be because nobody stopped long enough to ask, “Is this actually true?” And that’s how cycles are born. We are taught things so early that they feel like facts. “This is how it has always been.” “This is just how life works.” “This is how women survive.” “This is...

Let’s talk about long flights. I recently took a direct flight that lasted over 12 hours, and honestly… it was one of those trips that reminds you how important comfort is especially when you’re stuck in the sky for half a day. I went in hopeful. I mean, it was a direct flight, so I thought, “Okay, at least I won’t have to deal with connections and stress.” But from the moment I got to my seat, I already knew I was about to be tested. My Seat Partner and the Beginning of Wahala My seat...