Dear Future Husband IV
- Adeola Oladele
- Jan 21
- 2 min read
Hey Future husband,

I hope that when you read these letters, you see how much I anticipated your arrival and I hope you smile. Writing these letters is like a therapeutic experience for me and I hope you love each of these letters as much as I loved writing them.
When I think of you especially in recent times; I see a man who looks at me like I am his first baby but also like the love of his life. I see a man that makes me smile without even trying, I see a man that loves my heart above anything physical. When I think of my future with you, I see lots of plays, lots of laughter, lots of love to go around above all I see a kingdom love that tears down the kingdom of darkness.
I hope you're warming up for that great moment just like I am. The moment we are finally united and we are ready to start our journey to forever. You know sometimes, I wish it was here already like can we get started on forever but I also imagine the beauty that our lives will be together and I know that it must be worth the wait. The things we will experience and experiment together makes me wonder where we would start from.
I have always been told that marriage is not a bed of roses but I just learned recently that if you work hard and plant one rose a day in your marriage, very soon, you will have your bed of roses as long as we are both willing to work the garden and plant our roses. Even though I understand the fact that it will not be easy, our sacrifice and commitment to each other will go a long way in building the future we imagine. I am praying that our house will be filled with a lot of laughter, joy , happiness and very playful with plenty of adventures, love, and communication.
Note this, I want to have those spontaneous dates night and day, constant weekly movie nights, pajama runs, cheat days, pillow fights and more importantly an altar of prayer. I want to always annoy you by jumping on your back early Saturday mornings and play with you silly. I want us to be as much friends as we are lovers and the only third party is God. I pray that I will be able to share with you my greatest fears and utmost desires, you will be my best friend and closest ally. Once again, I want our house to be filled with a lot of laughter, joy, understanding, communication, love and most especially God.
Not sure how much more time I have to wait or when exactly will be the time we will be united but I know that when the time comes, it will be duly ordained by God. And however much time we get, I am certain we will cherish it well. To meeting you soon and spending a lifetime of happiness together.
See you soon hubby,
Your lovely wife-in-waiting,
Adeola


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