Deola's Diary

There comes a point in life when you realize that not everything you inherited was meant to be kept. Sometimes, these things are taught from the place of love; while others were taught and shown in fear and with fear. It could even be because nobody stopped long enough to ask, “Is this actually true?” And that’s how cycles are born. We are taught things so early that they feel like facts. “This is how it has always been.” “This is just how life works.” “This is how women surv

Let’s be honest, asking for help is not for the weak it is actually a strength to be able to let go of your pride & ego to ask for help. It’s for the strong, the mature, and the people who are tired of suffering in silence while pretending everything is “fine.” Because why is it that you can carry the whole world on your head, but the moment you need support, you suddenly become shy? Suddenly you are quick to say: “No, I’m okay.” or “I’ll figure it out." or “God will help me.

There’s something comforting about walls. They create boundaries. They offer protection. They give you control or so it seems. For a lot of us, the walls we’ve built around our hearts didn’t go up overnight (Rome wasn't built in a day). The walls were built tile by tile, brick by brick, from experiences, betrayals that we never saw coming, disappointments that has shattered our hopes, moments when trusting others only left us wounded or heartbroken. At first, when you start b

Every lady is beautiful, no matter her shape or form. Your weight does not define your worth or how you should carry yourself in this world. Beauty is not confined to a number on a scale but is reflected in your confidence, kindness, and individuality. Yet, weight can often feel like a defining factor in one’s life. It’s important to acknowledge that weight is influenced by numerous factors, such as genetics, unhealthy habits, hormonal imbalances, mental health struggles, med

Have you ever looked at your life; your struggles, your past, your mistakes and wondered, How can anything meaningful come out of this?  For years, I carried that same question. Life threw challenges at me that left me feeling unworthy, invisible, and stuck. I often asked myself if my story could ever matter, let alone make an impact. But as I’ve walked through life, one thing has become clear: your mess can become your message, and God can turn your life into something deepl