Deola's Diary

There’s something comforting about walls. They create boundaries. They offer protection. They give you control or so it seems. For a lot of us, the walls we’ve built around our hearts didn’t go up overnight (Rome wasn't built in a day). The walls were built tile by tile, brick by brick, from experiences, betrayals that we never saw coming, disappointments that has shattered our hopes, moments when trusting others only left us wounded or heartbroken. At first, when you start b

Every lady is beautiful, no matter her shape or form. Your weight does not define your worth or how you should carry yourself in this world. Beauty is not confined to a number on a scale but is reflected in your confidence, kindness, and individuality. Yet, weight can often feel like a defining factor in one’s life. It’s important to acknowledge that weight is influenced by numerous factors, such as genetics, unhealthy habits, hormonal imbalances, mental health struggles, med

Have you ever looked at your life; your struggles, your past, your mistakes and wondered, How can anything meaningful come out of this?  For years, I carried that same question. Life threw challenges at me that left me feeling unworthy, invisible, and stuck. I often asked myself if my story could ever matter, let alone make an impact. But as I’ve walked through life, one thing has become clear: your mess can become your message, and God can turn your life into something deepl