Deola's Diary

There comes a point in life when you realize that not everything you inherited was meant to be kept. Sometimes, these things are taught from the place of love; while others were taught and shown in fear and with fear. It could even be because nobody stopped long enough to ask, “Is this actually true?” And that’s how cycles are born. We are taught things so early that they feel like facts. “This is how it has always been.” “This is just how life works.” “This is how women surv

Happy New Year, beautiful one. Welcome to a fresh year, a fresh breath, and a fresh invitation from God to live differently. Not louder Just bolder . Not busier Just more intentional . Not perfect Just fearless enough to try again . This year, you are not entering with anxiety. You are entering with alignment. Because you didn’t survive all you survived to spend another year shrinking. This Year, We Are Choosing Bold Bold doesn’t always mean dramatic. Bold can look like: Star

There are days when the weight of the world feels like it’s sitting on your chest. Yeah… I know those days. The kind where everything feels like a little too much, even things that normally wouldn’t bother you. Like you're carrying invisible weights on your shoulders and no one can really see it. It ’s okay to cry. It’s okay to feel. Some days, surviving is more than enough. You don’t have to have it all figured out today. Just breathe. One breath at a time. I feel that pain

Do you believe that there is no limit on your life except the one you have placed in your mind? You can’t step into what you’re too afraid to imagine. God didn’t create you to just survive. He called you to see , to believe , and to move . You will only go as far as your vision can stretch. Not your age, not your background, not your location, not your bank account; your vision . I hope you know that God is not limited by your circumstances or the situations around you. The l

Hurry Up Have you ever sat with your head in your hands, heart heavy with disappointment, eyes filled with quiet frustration and you are just whispering, “God… how much longer?” J ust checking to make sure I am not alone . Because I have. I know for a fact that waiting on God can feel like being stuck in a hallway and every door seems closed just for you because everyone around you seems to be doing just fine and walking through with ease. You've prayed. You've fasted. You've

Pruning is a term often associated with gardening, but it can be applied to life and faith as well. Whether it's God pruning you, life trimming away what no longer serves you, or you actively pruning yourself, the process is essential for growth. While it may feel painful or inconvenient at the time, the beauty of pruning lies in its transformative power. The Ways We Are Pruned Pruning comes in different forms. Sometimes, it’s external—loss of relationships, changes in career