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Writer's pictureAdeola Oladele

THE RIGHT TIME NEVER COMES




It is no secret that people commonly say, "I'll wait for the right time to do this." Whether it's starting a new career, pursuing a passion, or going on a personal journey of growth, the concept of the "right time" holds us back . However, the truth is that the perfect moment never comes; instead, we must create our own opportunities and seize the moment when we can.


Stop waiting for the 'right' moment—start now! Every step you take today brings you closer to your goals. Remember, progress often comes from taking imperfect action rather than waiting for perfection.


You have to understand that the Right Time is a Myth because when you keep waiting for the right time, you keep delaying the prospect of you making the move that can change your life.


Understand that there are somethings that waiting on the right time can lead you into

Perpetual Procrastination: Believing that there is a "right time" will lead to endless procrastination. Which means you are constantly not making move just sitting around waiting for a moment that might never come. Most times, it can even be a result of waiting for external factors—like a stable job, financial security, or the ideal conditions—to align perfectly before taking action. Waiting for a right time can trap you in a cycle of inaction, stunting your growth and potential.


You must also know of Life's Unpredictability: Life is very unpredictable; there are twists and



turns with life and it comes with its challenges. You have to know that circumstances change, opportunities arise unexpectedly, and challenges come when you least expect them. And continuing to wait for the time means there is a risk of missing out on valuable experiences that could lead to your growth. The right time you are looking for will never feel right until you actually take the leap and step into action. The fact that nobody can predict tomorrow should actually be proof enough that waiting for the right time yields no result.


You can inherently embrace the imperfection of situations and seize the time you have now instead of waiting around by Taking Small Steps: Instead of waiting for a grand moment, consider taking small, actionable steps towards your goals. Each step, no matter how minor, will help you to build momentum and confidence. Embrace the journey, imperfections and all, this will help you to recognize that progress often comes in fits and starts. Learn to Adapt: When you stop waiting for the right time, you open yourself to adaptability. Which means every experience, whether successful or challenging, will teach you something valuable. Taking the small steps and adapting to change and uncertainties will show you new insights and opportunities that you could have overlooked initially.


Instead of waiting around for the "Right Time", you can go ahead and create your own Right Time by Setting Realistic Goals: Instead of waiting on a seemingly perfect moment, set achievable goals that are aligned with your passions and values. Break them down into manageable tasks and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. This will help you cultivate a sense of purpose and direction. Seek Support: Surround yourself with like-minded people who can encourage and inspire you. Whether it's family, friends, mentors, having a support system can make all the difference. Share your aspirations, seek feedback, and hold each other accountable. Embrace Fear: The misconception of fear is that it is all bad but fear is a natural part of pursuing new endeavors. So instead of letting it paralyze you, you can use it as a catalyst for growth. Acknowledge your fears, but don’t let them dictate your decisions. Remember, every great achievement often requires stepping outside of your comfort zone.


The right time may never come, but that shouldn't deter you from pursuing your dreams. Instead of waiting for the perfect moment, create your own opportunities through action, resilience, and adaptability. Life is too short to wait for a moment that may never arrive. Embrace the journey, learn from every experience, and trust that every step you take brings you closer to the fulfillment of your dreams. So, take that leap today—your future self will thank you for it!



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