Deola's Diary

There’s something comforting about walls. They create boundaries. They offer protection. They give you control or so it seems. For a lot of us, the walls we’ve built around our hearts didn’t go up overnight (Rome wasn't built in a day). The walls were built tile by tile, brick by brick, from experiences, betrayals that we never saw coming, disappointments that has shattered our hopes, moments when trusting others only left us wounded or heartbroken. At first, when you start b

Hurry Up Have you ever sat with your head in your hands, heart heavy with disappointment, eyes filled with quiet frustration and you are just whispering, “God… how much longer?” J ust checking to make sure I am not alone . Because I have. I know for a fact that waiting on God can feel like being stuck in a hallway and every door seems closed just for you because everyone around you seems to be doing just fine and walking through with ease. You've prayed. You've fasted. You've

Think about God as the ultimate investor, who is giving out gifts and talents like a divine venture capitalist. Everybody gets a gift according to their abilities; some get five, some two, and some just one—but here’s the catch: He definitely wants a return! Not because He’s broke or he needs it because heaven’s treasury is doing just fine, but because He wants to see if you can handle more. The real question is— what are you doing with what He gave you? What Has God Given Y

When was the last time you read a love letter that made you giggle and your heart happy? A love letter that lightens your mood and brightens your day. Not a "you up?" text at midnight or a "Good morning beautiful" text, but a real, heart-pouring declaration of affection. There’s something magical about words crafted with intentionality, and no one has does this better than the Songs of Solomon . This biblical book is not just poetry; it’s a symphony of romance, intimacy, and

Have you ever had a decision stare you in the face so hard that you start looking away, hoping it’ll magically disappear? Recently, I’ve been in this weird limbo where I know what I need to do, but accepting it? Whew. That’s another battle. So, if you’re in that place where the weight of a decision feels like carrying a bag of rice on your head, let’s talk about it. There comes a time in life when you’re faced with decisions so big, so life-altering, that it makes you questio

Once upon a time, there was a little girl; we will call her "Queen in Transition" moving forward and that Queen is you. Her heart was heavy from carrying burdens she didn’t deserve. You didn’t know where to go or who to turn to, so you found solace with yourself. You became a comfort for yourself, your friends and family and even you own hero. And a lot of times, you felt alone, unwanted, unloved, and never enough. But here’s the thing about this queen in transition: no matte

Fear has a way of showing up just when you’re about to step into something new or significant. It grips your thoughts, quickens your heart, and sometimes makes you second-guess yourself. But here’s something you need to hear: the moments when you’re most scared are often the moments you should act the most. Fear isn’t a stop sign; it’s a signal that you’re on the brink of something meaningful. The Causes of Fear Fear doesn’t come out of nowhere—it has its roots. Maybe you’ve

Let me tell you of a love story that is not about fairy tales or make-believe, but about a love so pure, it feels almost sacred. A love so sweet and true, it’s hard to imagine it could exist in a world so chaotic. But it does. I’ve seen it. I’ve felt it. Imagine a love so adorable, so kind, it feels like a melody crafted just for your heart. A love so delicate, yet so unshakable, that nothing can dilute its essence. That’s the beauty of perfect love; a love that transforms y

Every lady is beautiful, no matter her shape or form. Your weight does not define your worth or how you should carry yourself in this world. Beauty is not confined to a number on a scale but is reflected in your confidence, kindness, and individuality. Yet, weight can often feel like a defining factor in one’s life. It’s important to acknowledge that weight is influenced by numerous factors, such as genetics, unhealthy habits, hormonal imbalances, mental health struggles, med

The dawn of a new year brings excitement, hope, and an unmistakable urge to redefine ourselves. As the clock strikes midnight, many of us eagerly pen down resolutions, bold declarations of what the next 365 days should look like. But the truth is, a year is not made by wishes or lists—it is created by action. Beyond Resolutions: The Power of Doing Resolutions are great they signify hope and vision. But they are only the starting point. What truly matters is what comes next. T

Pruning is a term often associated with gardening, but it can be applied to life and faith as well. Whether it's God pruning you, life trimming away what no longer serves you, or you actively pruning yourself, the process is essential for growth. While it may feel painful or inconvenient at the time, the beauty of pruning lies in its transformative power. The Ways We Are Pruned Pruning comes in different forms. Sometimes, it’s external—loss of relationships, changes in career

There’s a unique kind of beauty in waiting for your person—the one who will make your heart laugh and your stomach dance. It’s not just about finding someone who makes the world stand still; it’s about finding the one who makes you feel like you’re the center of theirs. This person, your person, is unlike anyone else. They are the one after your heart, the one who understands the rhythm of your soul. They make even the most ordinary moments feel extraordinary, filling your da

Have you ever looked at your life; your struggles, your past, your mistakes and wondered, How can anything meaningful come out of this? For years, I carried that same question. Life threw challenges at me that left me feeling unworthy, invisible, and stuck. I often asked myself if my story could ever matter, let alone make an impact. But as I’ve walked through life, one thing has become clear: your mess can become your message, and God can turn your life into something deepl

Faith and fear can be two powerful forces that will constantly battle for control in our lives. While faith propels us forward, inspiring hope and courage, fear seeks to hold us back, whispering lies of inadequacy and danger. The good news? You can activate your faith and rise above fear by taking intentional steps toward a fearless, faith-filled life. Understanding Faith and Fear Faith is not just a passive belief; it’s an active trust in God and His promises. It is the assu

It is no secret that people commonly say, "I'll wait for the right time to do this." Whether it's starting a new career, pursuing a passion, or going on a personal journey of growth, the concept of the "right time" holds us back . However, the truth is that the perfect moment never comes; instead, we must create our own opportunities and seize the moment when we can. Stop waiting for the 'right' moment—start now! Every step you take today brings you closer to your goals. Reme

Life is full of ups and downs, with plenty twists and turns, and at times, challenges that can be overwhelming. When you are working hard and chasing your dreams, it can feel like a constant battle, and it's easy to feel discouraged when faced with these obstacles. However, the key to succeeding lies in your perseverance and your unwavering decision to never give up. Persisting is not just about pushing through difficult moments but also about embracing your particular journe

I know life is not easy, and situations can seem drowning. You are preaching to the choir when you say that "You are tired" because I feel your pain deeply. But you better not stay moping around the whole day because what would be your gain if you give up now? I understand you had to struggle to get out of bed today and fake that smile so that people will not know that something is bothering you. I know you have tried everything possible but it just keeps feeling like nothing

Believing in yourself is a superpower that gives you the courage to take on challenges, the resilience to bounce back from setbacks, and the confidence to pursue your dreams. Hence, in any situation remember to trust in your abilities, embrace your uniqueness, and keep pushing forward. O ne of the greatest assets you can possess is a steadfast belief in yourself because it serves as the cornerstone for your success, it will guide you you through hard times and propel you towa

It is easy to rely on other people's knowledge and understanding of who God is because they look like they have done the work so you can...

Fear is one of the major stronghold that the enemy uses. Especially in this world that is filled with a lot of uncertainties, it is very...